tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6489490730496835157.post1905051665294766387..comments2023-04-01T06:15:28.451-07:00Comments on sans borders: negligence.elysabethrattohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09454303831535070065noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6489490730496835157.post-57791598787230124802010-02-21T09:11:13.160-08:002010-02-21T09:11:13.160-08:00Thanks for everyone's advice...I really feel t...Thanks for everyone's advice...I really feel the love! :)Elysabeth Hahmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10121911703094641554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6489490730496835157.post-7008076922774603392010-02-20T16:25:11.445-08:002010-02-20T16:25:11.445-08:00You're over thinking it and not, you not alone...You're over thinking it and not, you not alone. :-) It's called life so embrace it.<br /><br />Life is made up of little droplets of experiences. Those experiences change us invisibly every day, which makes it really important for those in relationships to communicate often (especially in long distance relationships. We are different people today than who we were last year.<br /><br />You'll discover that friends you didn't have much in common with to begin with, and you don't see much - the friendships will eventually fade. On the flipside, the people you meet that you think are fabulous, you may feel the same in 2 years after the daily experiences have changed you to be who you are then.<br /><br />So, what are we to do? The relationships we deem important, work at it, cultivate it, pay attention to it, keep it alive. <br /> <br />WOW! I'm deep today, huh?Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06411517631619149483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6489490730496835157.post-41399141806499597162010-02-20T15:38:31.131-08:002010-02-20T15:38:31.131-08:00Well I agree with both of you guys! I've begun...Well I agree with both of you guys! I've begun to realize that I only have a handful of life long friends. Everyone else I have met, are still amazing people, but they aren't as special as my true friends. <br /><br />A few nights ago, I was looking through all of my old notes and pictures and yearbooks of Zion and I actually started to cry. Yup. I definitely cried over Zion. I just felt so sad and guilty that I threw away some good friendships. Especially with you, Elysabeth. And Tanya. I'm so sorry for letting our friendships slip away. I miss you both so much and I still do love you both. <br /><br />Ok I'm done writing because I'm starting to cry again haha. <br /><br />Love you both :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17346704641309047165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6489490730496835157.post-6195699242952119112010-02-20T14:54:02.730-08:002010-02-20T14:54:02.730-08:00I evaluate my friendships all the time because I f...I evaluate my friendships all the time because I feel people change or they aren't consistently a friend. I guess the best advice given to me was to accept the fact that not every single one of your friends are going to be caring and heartfelt or a lifelong friend. People come in and out of our lives for different reasons, not everyone will be special and that sucks. Cherish the ones you do see yourself "growing old" with as friends. It's strange because unlike romantic relationships you don't break up with friends. I always feel like I am over thinking too but don't worry, a lot of people think about this (well maybe women more). I just try to make an effort to see those who make an effort as well.<br /><br />I am pretty sure this will be a lifelong struggle especially when "life" really hits everyone. Marriage, kids, careers... we will all have to evaluate friendships and make decisions.<br /><br />In regards to just being in bed all day... I want to too!! I am trying to study for a midterm on Monday in bed. It's kind of working. :)Simply Tanyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02511868060456844312noreply@blogger.com